Day 6

Day 6. It’s nice how much less I have craved alcohol these past 6 nights. I definitely think it’s 100% due to being in a different house. I just hope the cravings don’t come back strong again when we get all settled in and the excitement fades. I know the cravings will always come and go. But hopefully it won’t be every single night at the same time like it used to be. I know that will happen if I start drinking in this house.

I started reading the book Integral Recovery. It’s interesting. But I hate hearing that addicts will be addicts forever. But I guess it’s true. Even though I quit smoking cigarettes 4 years ago and have smoked one a few times since without feeling the need to start smoking regularly again. I guess alcohol is different.

As long as I don’t crave alcohol the rest of my life I am fine with being an addict and never drinking again. I guess.. Thinking of never drinking again is still a little overwhelming, actually. I do miss it. Sort of like an unhealthy relationship with someone you’ve attached yourself to. You know you’re so much better off, but there’s still a part of you that’s attached and can’t help but think of the good times.

I know I’ll never be a normal drinker and I’ll never even attempt that. I don’t have a desire to be a normal drinker. I don’t want to have one glass of wine. Ever. Two bottles? Yes. Drinking one glass of wine is like torture.

Sometimes I think there’s nothing wrong with me. The majority of the country (myself included) is overweight. Most are because they don’t exercise or they eat unhealthily, or both. And they want to eat right and exercise but they give up on their diets and give into watching tv or eating bad food when the temptation comes. Sometimes I see my struggle with alcohol being the same thing. Just being like most of the world.. having a lack of motivation or self control.

But I guess it’s different. I guess it’s hard to accept that you’re not normal. That you have a problem. I think I have accepted this. But I do try and talk myself out of it sometimes. I guess what I really want is just to not think about alcohol. To decide I’ll quit drinking without having to write about it in a blog. Or read books. Without having to “recover”. And I don’t mean it in a lazy way. I just want to live normally. I just want to forget about it and leave the past in the past. But I dug myself in this hole and it’ll take work getting out. And I am willing to do that.

Anyways, on a positive note.. I feel good and I don’t have a desire to drink. This is nothing like my past attempts. It’s strange, but miraculous. And I know it’s only day 6, but I was struggling HARD every single day when I had given up drinking before.

I have hope that one day I will live a life that is not centered around drinking or about being sober. But for now, sobriety first.

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One thought on “Day 6

  1. I”m glad it’s easier to stop this time. That’s a huge benefit. I remember some attempts being much harder than others.
    You’ll be relieved to know that I live just like a normal person now. I don’t ever think about alcohol. It’s just not relevant anymore. I also don’t remind myself that I became addicted to an addictive substance, and therefore have to guard against it every day. It was like that at first, but now I dream of chocolate chip cookie instead. 💕

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